Walk, don’t run

In this world of rat races, keeping up with the Joneses in pursuit of the mighty dollar, and achieving the American Dream, there isn’t much time for inner reflection. To maintain a homeostasis of mind, body, and spirit, to feed ourselves the sustenance needed to be successful at being human, we need a guide.

Richard Singer’s new book, Your Daily Walk with the Great Minds, does the job. Singer breaks down a year into a day-by-day-like calendar. Each day is broken into subcategories and assignments.  A book is suggested for each month. In March, the suggested book is As a Man Thinketh by James Allen. In June, The Alchemist by Paulo Coelho is recommended.

One of the subcategories is “A quote from a great mind in history.” On March 13 a quote from St. Augustine reads “The world is a book and those who do not travel read only a page.” In response, Singer writes, “Life, the Universe, and the world, consist of infinite pages, eternal chapters, and inexhaustible ‘stories’ of growth, triumph, and love. Plan to move forward on your reading and adventure, get out, experience, see, love, dream, and succeed. Read the book of life intensely and create your tale of success. Take a voyage inside your being, into novel situations, into new cultures, and discover the connection of humanity and the oneness of the Universe.”

Another subcategory is called “Personal Journaling.” For example, Singer asks, “What is the title of your next chapter?” He closes with a positive affirmation:

Today, I will notice the sacred in all of life and honor the divinity of existence.

Yes, it does sound a bit preachy and New-Age-ish, tossing around esoteric words like ‘sacred,’ ‘divinity,’ and ‘oneness,’ but Singer’s book is not enabling to the reader. Instead, Singer shows readers how to empower themselves and convinces them to be accountable for their own actions and consequences. Supporting his ideas with quotes from truly great minds, Singer doesn’t have a get-rich-quick scheme and doesn’t expect the reader to join a cause, tithe, or give up all their worldly possessions. He doesn’t want to be praised or be known as a guru with all the answers. Singer doesn’t expect the reader to believe or seek forgiveness from an entity that sits on a golden throne and judges all humanity. Singer only wants readers to believe in themselves and offers Your Daily Walk with the Great Minds as a tool or reference book — like a dictionary, atlas, or encyclopedia — to be used at the reader’s leisure.

Lee Gooden

Your Daily Walk with the Great Minds: Wisdom and Enlightenment of the Past and Present
By Richard A. Singer Jr.
Loving Healing Press, 2007

 

The alliance of civilizations

Wherever communities believe they face persistent discrimination, humiliation, or  marginalization based on ethnic, religious, or other identity markers, they are likely to  assert their identity more aggressively. As long as the source of resentment persists, and  particularly when it is aggravated by increased humiliation or by despair in the normal  political process, moderate leaders will always struggle to match the allure of those who  stoke feelings of collective anger and offer fellowship and redress through exclusivist  ideologies, adversarial politics and violence. Effective counter-measures cannot rely  solely on attacking adherents of such ideologies — in fact such tactics are likely to inflame  the very sentiments they seek to eradicate.

— An excerpt from the Alliance of Civilizations report, which was presented today to UN Secretary General Kofi Annan at a ceremony in Istanbul. The report argues against a notion of a clash of civilizations and claims that politics, and not religion, lie at the source of conflicts which are sometimes couched in religious discourse. The report was written by the Alliance of Civilizations, which consists of international dignitaries — including Anglican Archbishop Desmond Tutu and former Iranian President Mohammed Khatami — drawn from a variety of faiths, who have met over the past year.

A full copy of the report can be found here.

Mimi Hanaoka

 

Secret Asian Man

About those cultural stereotypes perpetuated by the mass media …

 

In the shadows

A glimpse into the downtown alleys one young woman calls home.

Behind the popular coffee shops, crowded sidewalks, and entertainment of bustling 9th Street in Columbia, Missouri, lives a family stuck in the shadows of society.

Over the past three years, Sheena Marie Andrews has overcome drug addictions and struggled with emotional depression while living on the streets. She was kicked out of her father’s house at 17 for her drug use and turned to her street family, which offered money, alcohol, tobacco, and companionship for the high school dropout.

At 20, Sheena is one of the youngest women sleeping in the alleys of downtown Columbia. She has quickly grown tired of the city, but not the lifestyle, and is looking for a way to escape before her next court date. Sheena struggles to come to grips with reality, but confusion over love, family, and identity has clouded her future.

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Some like it hot

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Growing up in Texas, I long believed there could never be too much spice — and that everyone shared that belief. But thanks to the northern waiters and waitresses who squint, push their heads forward like geese, and say, “Are you sure you want it extra spicy? It’s going to burn your mouth,” I have learned that testing the limits isn’t always preferable.

In this spice-laden issue of InTheFray, we ask when it’s best to say “when,” and when it’s worth pushing ourselves. We begin with stories about restricting our spice intake: Tran Le Thuy looks at how Iraqis are risking their lives — and concealing their identities — when accepting Fulbright scholarships to study in the United States. Meanwhile, in The spice of life, Rachel Van Thyn watches sugar and spice nearly kill her older sister and learns a valuable lesson about second chances — and eating healthy.

Speaking of second chances, the Amish school shootings give April D. Boland the wake-up call she needs to say that violence against women is no laughing matter in Breaking the silence. And while guest columnist Lyz Baranowski is not offended by Madonna’s use of the crucifix to raise money to combat AIDS in Africa, she sees it for what it is — self-promotion.

Rounding out this month’s stories are three tales of the upside of spice: Poet Jen Karetnick imagines what a food critic might serve up, while Lisa Tae-Ran Schroeder, hoping to discover that which American Chinese restaurants lack, goes Searching for spice on a visit to China’s Sichuan Province.

Finally, in Points of encounter ITF Board member Randy Klein gives us a hint about just how spicy the new ITF site is going to be when we formally launch the Activist’s Corner, our new department,  along with our new design in 2007. He talks with filmmaker Ronit Avni about her documentary Encounter Point and using a video camera to raise awareness about the grassroots efforts of Israelis and Palestinians to forge peace.

We look forward to introducing you to ITF’s new look and feel on January 1. But before we ring in the new year and our new site, we’d like you to vote for your favorite ITF stories of 2006. We will publish them next month in our BEST OF InTheFray 2006 issue. So what are you waiting for? Vote now (and not just for the Best of ITF)!

Laura Nathan
Editor
Buffalo, New York

 

Executing Saddam

What difference is his execution going to make to chaos in Iraq?  I hate Saddam, but I can’t blame him for the current situation — my country has become the most dangerous place on earth. Where is the freedom the Americans promised?

Aziz Majeed, a Kurd from Irbil, Iraq, alluding to the increasing chaos in Iraqi cities in the aftermath of Saddam’s sentence to death by hanging. Saddam will be hung, pending appeal, for crimes against humanity he committed in 1982 in Dujail, which is primarily Shia. He organized the slaughter of 148 men and boys in Dujail because there was assassination attempt against him in the city. Barzan al-Tikriti, Saddam Hussein’s half-brother, and Awad Hamed al-Bandar, Iraq’s former chief judge, were also sentenced to death.

Protesters — such as those in Tikrit, Saddam’s hometown — and celebrants — in including those in Sadr City, Najaf, and Baghdad — alike evidence the escalating violence and amplified factionalization that will result from the verdict.

Mimi Hanaoka

 

Points of encounter

Though mainstream media coverage of the Israel-Palestine conflict suggests the inevitability of violence, alternative media is discovering just how deep the desire for non-violent solutions runs. A conversation with activist-filmmaker Ronit Avni.

Most people are unaware of the existence of Israelis or Palestinians working to find a non-violent solution to the conflict in the region. Violence and bloodshed make for better headlines and allow the conflict to be easily reduced to “us versus them.”

But Ronit Avni is trying to change that. Ronit is the founder and director of Just Vision, an organization that documents and raises awareness of Israeli and Palestinian grassroots peace activists. She is also the co-director of the documentary Encounter Point, which features the stories of activists she has met through the course of her work.

The film has been screened at several festivals over the past few months, including Hot Docs, the Jerusalem Film Festival, the Tribeca Film Festival, the Sao Paulo Film Festival, and the Vancouver International Film Festival. Encounter Point also won the audience award for best documentary at the San Francisco International Film Festival in May. It opens for a limited run at the Quad Cinema in New York on November 17.

The interviewer: Randy Klein, ITF Board of Directors member
The interviewee: Ronit Avni, filmmaker and activist

You have been involved in human rights work for a long time and Just Vision seems like an outgrowth of several of your past experiences. What was it like interning for B’Tselem, the Israeli Information Center for Human Rights in the Occupied Territories?

Human rights work is generally a sobering and difficult experience. You develop a vocabulary you wish you would never have use for; words to describe torture, degradation, assassinations, discrimination, abuse. It is painful to confront what we human beings are capable of. It is especially painful if you were taught to hold your community or society to high standards of moral conduct. The dissonance can be destabilizing.

I interned at B’Tselem in 1999, during the Oslo process. It was eye-opening. A field researcher, Najib Abu Rokaya, was kind enough to take me with him on various occasions to the West Bank as he collected testimonies of Palestinians whose homes had been destroyed or whose child had been hit by a rubber-coated steel bullet. At the time, the intern coordinator introduced me to the Public Committee Against Torture in Israel (PCATI) so I would split my time between my own research, PCATI, and B’Tselem.

What struck me was that communities who lived ten or fifteen minutes apart from one another had virtually no sense of the other’s perspective. It isn’t a unique phenomenonæthere are plenty of communities in Brooklyn or Manhattan that never interactæbut it really affected me. B’Tselem gave me the opportunity to see through these two separate lenses. I have tremendous respect for their work. It is never easy to hold a mirror up to one’s society. Many prophetic voices have been killed or ostracized over generations for critiquing dominant views or habits, and yet such voices are essential to our growth as ethical human beings. B’Tselem holds a mirror up to Israeli society. Those who take the time to read their reports see a picture that is less than flattering. I also started reading Stanley Cohen’s work during that timeæabout different ways that societies deflect responsibility through denial, or rationalization or by displacing blame. I was seeing this play out in the public’s responses to B’Tselem.

You spent several years working at WITNESS, which is an amazing human rights organization. Tell us a little about the organization and some of your experiences working there.

WITNESS was conceived by Peter Gabriel. The idea was to train human rights organizations to document abuses using video cameras. After the Rodney King beating, the organization was launched together with the Lawyers Committee for Human Rights, now called “Human Rights First.” When I started, I was one of three full-time staff members, so each person wore many hats. Part of my role became to train human rights organizations from countries including Afghanistan, the Gambia, Honduras and Senegal to document violations using video and to strategize with them about effective uses of video for social change. I loved the work as it was at the intersection of technology, film, human rights advocacy and public policy. It was also tremendously humbling to meet so many courageous people. I was particularly inspired by indigenous rights advocate Joey Lozano from the Philippines, the women from RAWA [Revolutionary Association of the Women of Afghanistan], and the youth of color from the Bay Area who all demonstrated civic leadership in their communities despite personal hardship. They were not politicians, yet they had a sense of agency and urgency and this led them to get involved. They inspired me to look for Israelis and Palestinians doing the same within their own societies. This was the beginning of my journey to launch Just Vision.

What did you learn about using video as a tool for advocacy?

I learned about the strengths and limits of the medium. It is an inherently reductive, narrative-driven medium that lends itself to telling personal stories rather than providing a structural overview of a systemic problem. Also, there are few rules; what is safe or ethical or effective in one context might be entirely problematic for another. It takes patience, planning and networks of support to make change happen. Very few rights violations are documented as they unfold. Instead, video is often used for evidence, awareness-raising, to reconstruct events or as a deterrent to further abuse. Most of the work happens after the film is producedæto ensure it is seen by those with the power to effect change. I learned that ultimately it is about community organizing, strategic thinking, reliability and quality. If all those elements come into play, you are more likely to be effective. If you are disorganized, lack buy-in from potential stakeholders, or are unreliable or shoddy in your work, you are unlikely to succeed.

When did you get the idea for Just Vision? Which came first, the film or the organization?

Encounter Point is an integral part of a broader effort to raise awareness about Palestinians and Israelis at the vanguard of a movement to promote nonviolence and peace building. The film was never meant to emerge in isolation. From the beginning, we wanted to create in-depth materials online to complement the film, since no 90-minute film can ever do justice to the painful, divisive and complex Israeli-Palestinian conflict. For this reason we are interviewing 180 peace builders and publishing this living history archive online at JustVision.org together with educational curricula and a timeline of the conflict through the lens of these 180 people who are committed to ending it. We are also trying to connect such peace builders to policymakers, journalists, community leaders, religious figures and more. We’ve taken our work to members of the State Department, Capitol Hill, the World Bank, the Oprah Winfrey Show, temples, mosques and community centers, to name a few.

Why do you think stories of these brave and inspiring individuals are so absent from the coverage of the situation?

They are not sensational. They are complex and hard to describe. They don’t “sell” or “pitch” well. A photo of a bomb or the wounded is self-explanatory. The picture tells the story. Peace work is slow, incremental, it is relational and requires context. I don’t think there is any ill-intent by journalists who do not cover this story, but it requires them to know more background, to speak the languages of the peace builders, to take time to learn the nuances of different approaches. And social change is slow. Policy is immediate and wide-ranging in its impact so it feels urgent to report on. Grassroots work is ongoing and develops over years or decades, Sometimes we take this for granted and don’t bother to stop and say, “Wait, this is important.” We have yet to fully appreciate the impact of this type of work, though. The Israeli movement to withdraw its troops from Lebanon began with small grassroots organizations and networks of mothers and then soldiers and others who wanted to see change. It took two decades, but it finally happened by and large. These movements take a long time to take root, and to enter into public discourse and ultimately to reflect the mainstream.

Just as the individuals featured in the film come from different backgrounds, Just Vision is itself a collaboration of people from various parts of the globe. Can you talk about some of the various staff and what their perspective brings to the organization?

We are a core team of young women from Israel, Canada, the Occupied Palestinian Territories, Brazil and the US. Julia Bacha is from Brazil. She was the co-writer and editor of the filmControl Room, and studied Middle Eastern history and politics. Joline Makhlouf is the first Palestinian woman pilot. She’s worked with Israeli-Palestinian co-existence and dialogue groups ranging from Face-to-Face, Faith-to-Faith and Seeds of Peace. Nahanni Rous is a journalist from the US who interned in Jerusalem with Linda Gradstein of NPR and traveled cross country interviewing families after September 11th. I am part Israeli, part Canadian. It takes everyone to move this agenda forward. The more communities begin to back non-violent peace builders, and the more we demand that they be reported on and supported, the better.

You have shown the film at locations in Israel and the West Bank.  Can you talk about the reaction of the audience at these screenings?

The reactions to Encounter Point have been largely positive. We opened the film in West Jerusalem at the Jerusalem International Film Festival to a sold-out audience. It was perhaps the most diverse group of people I have seen in the region with cynics and sceptics along with those eager for the film. They ranged from Israeli orthodox Jewish settlers to Northern Tel Aviv secular affluent Israeli Jews to Palestinian Christians to Palestinian Muslims from Ramallah, Jenin, East Jerusalem and other nearby cities. We were terrified at how they would react but the film subjects received a standing ovation at the end. One orthodox Jewish Israeli man got up and stated that he felt the film was biased in favor of Palestinians. One devout Palestinian Muslim woman stood and expressed that she felt it was biased in favor of Israelis. Afterwards, most people went outside and continued the conversation for 1.5 hours. This included the two individuals who felt the film favored the “other side.” It was truly amazing.

In East Jerusalem we received a similarly positive response. We also showed the film in Haifa and Jenin. In Haifa, we screened the film three times but people were just returning to their homes so the turnout was low. They have invited us back for a proper, publicized screening. In Jenin about 100 people came, watched the film, clapped and then ran into the streets as the Israeli army had just invaded, so we didn’t have a substantive Q&A afterwards. In Gaza, I wasn’t there, but my understanding is that the audience had a hard time. The Israeli army was engaged in military operations in Gaza at the time, so it was even more tense than usual for residents. Their only exposure to Israelis are as settlers and soldiers so they had difficulty seeing empathic depictions of Israeli civilians. Also, they wanted to see the army invasion reflected in the film, which it was not, although the military occupation is. We have just been invited to screen the film in Nazareth and Tel Aviv and are working on a Ramallah screening.

Are there any plans to reach out to schools or community groups to use this for educational purposes?

Yes, definitely. We made a special Arabic and Hebrew version of the film and have offered it to local educators and community leaders to use as a tool for sparking dialogue and understanding on some of these issues.  We’ve been working with graduate students from Columbia University Teacher’s College, as well as the staff of Abraham’s Vision to provide in-depth educational lessons about this issue. We hope to distribute the lessons to high schools and colleges across the country, as well as online.

Has the trouble over the summer in the West Bank and Lebanon impacted the work of the activists featured in the film?

Not really—Robi, Ali, Shlomo, Tzvika and Sami continue to be advocates for resolving the conflict through non-militant means. As far as I know, everyone is still engaged in their work.

Finally, it is impossible to have a conversation about the conflict without asking about the elections.  You have commented that Just Vision tries to focus on the people who will “have to live with the peace.” What are your thoughts and what have your contacts on both sides expressed to you concerning Hamas gaining so many seats in the Parliament?

Generally, we really focus on the people who do this work regardless of who is in power. So many events garner that question. When [Ariel] Sharon was elected, many Palestinians reacted similarly to Israelis’ reactions to Hamas’s victory. Yet peace building must continue, and it does. We want to strengthen the voices of those who are trying to build a culture and consensus that favors nonviolence and peace. This will take time, but it is essential. I was not surprised about the Hamas election. I don’t think it signals the radicalization of Palestinian society, just as the Likud vote for Sharon did not necessarily signal a major shift to the right by the Israeli public. People want to trust their leaders, and they want change. History demonstrates that sometimes hard liners make tough choices that doves cannot. I can only hope that whatever the outcome of these two elections, ultimately the voices for compromise, dignity and diplomacy on both sides take center stage. “Inshallah,” as they say.

 

The spice of life

A salt, sugar, and lactose-free tale of two sisters.

The writer with her sister, Lisa, on a family vacation in St. Thomas in January, 2006.

Growing up in a house of people with digestive disorders, I have always lived with bland food. My family members share an alphabet soup of conditions, from the intestinal disorder known as Crohn’s disease to lactose intolerance. I never would have thought that eating sugar and spice could give us more than an upset stomach. But these seasonings almost killed one member of our family.

My older sister Lisa has been on medication since she was 11 months old, having inherited extremely high cholesterol and high triglycerides from her birth father. Because of this, she has always had to keep an extremely strict diet—no cholesterol, no sugar. Growing up, I remember watching her cheat on her diet and struggle with her weight, but never thought too seriously about it until this past August. That was when Lisa suffered three heart attacks, and we nearly lost her the same way she lost her father when he was only 29. At 32, she has now outlived her dad by three years, but is having to re-examine her lifestyle and her diet after being given a second chance at life.

As a sibling who does not share her constraints, I have often wondered what it means to have to keep a “healthy” diet among those who don’t have the same types of restrictions. What foods does she eat, and what do they taste like? And what does it mean for the rest of our family to continually watch and worry over someone we love as she struggles with a difficult life devoid of cholesterol, sugar, and now salt in order to simply survive? The phrase “the spice of life” has begun to take on a very different meaning for all of us.

When we were growing up, I had only a vague sense of the life Lisa led. I knew that she wasn’t supposed to eat anything that had sugar third or higher in the list of ingredients. I knew she wasn’t allowed to eat the same sweets and candy I devoured constantly, and I knew she had to take medicine every day—pills and a weird yellow powder that she mixed up in juice or water. When cooking for her, my mom would always use egg whites instead of yolks, and she wouldn’t always eat what we did. I watched, but I didn’t really contemplate how such constraints played out in daily life.

I did, however, watch her cheat on her diet. She’d say things like, “Well, I’d rather live a short, happy life than have a long, boring one.” Lisa is seven years my senior, so I really didn’t see a lot of life-threatening habits—such as when she stopped going to the health clinic for monitoring, or when she occasionally skipped her medicine because it got too expensive and she didn’t want to ask for financial help.

Lisa made some spirited attempts to keep up a routine at the gym, but nothing stuck. I can’t say that I’ll ever know exactly what it’s like to be in her shoes—even if we do wear the same size—but I instinctively know that her lifestyle must be incredibly trying, and that I’m privileged because I don’t have to live by the same rules. In fact, while writing this story, I tried sticking to her diet myself. Let’s just say it didn’t last long.

To be honest, I never thought Lisa’s life was so much at risk. Maybe none of us did. I guess sometimes you have to learn things the hard way.

Although Lisa’s food restrictions have remained relatively the same since her attacks, her approach to life and her attitude have changed. For her heart disease, she keeps to a healthy low-fat, no cholesterol, no sodium diet. She tries to combine different spices to replace salt and throws in “all the vegetables you can eat” as well as certain fruits, but she still has to stay away from food high in natural sugar, such as most dried fruit. She uses a lot of Mrs. Dash, a salt-free seasoning, and sugar substitutes like Sweet’N Low. She drinks skim milk, and the breakfast foods she eats are always healthy and very bland, such as kasha, a porridge made with buckwheat—“cereal with twigs,” she jokes.

Lisa’s diet is also combined with a new zest for exercise. Right now she’s recovering and has to take things slowly, but she’s started walking on the treadmill at the gym. Once she has a second angioplasty to clear another blocked artery, she’ll start rehab under the watchful eyes of a cardiologist and a lipidologist. She is taking eight new daily medicines and keeping track of their dosage, their sizes, their side effects, and what she calls their “popping” times—enough to make the eyes glaze over.

When I ask Lisa if she finds her diet constraining, and how she feels when compared to others, she says, “Dining out is hard. When I go out with friends and they want to share platters, often I can’t, because so much is deep-fried. When I see on their plates that they’re having this or that, it’s hard. It never gets easier.”

“I try to come up with new stuff and interesting recipes. But this is something I’ve battled with all my life,” she adds.

I know Lisa has a new outlook, and that she understands she has been given a second chance. She told me that at the park the other day. Just watching the lake and the birds made her eyes well up with tears. The nurses in the emergency room called her the “miracle girl” because she only had about 30 minutes to get to the hospital before she surely would have died. She is one of the lucky ones.

Beginning again

Of course, the rest of us want to do everything we can to ensure Lisa will be with us for a long time. We are trying to make changes in our individual lives to share this challenge with her. Lisa’s husband has cut certain fatty foods from his diet, and has begun eating similar things as she does. “My husband eats more salads, tries more vegetables, and opts for low-fat salad dressings instead of creamy ones,” says Lisa. “He’s trying fish, and we’re making healthier choices.” The two go to the gym together. As for me, sometimes I exchange recipes with her—or helpful hints such as the one about replacing salt with lemon—something I learned from my roommates.

I fly into town for a weekend—it’s Canadian Thanksgiving, and we’re also having a surprise birthday party for my dad. The night before the party, my sister’s husband and I pick up chocolate and chips at the grocery store for an evening of movie watching. My sister picks up a bag of pretzels, then puts it back—a past stand-by snack that’s now off-limits because of the sodium.

I can see her frustration build. Everything has salt or fat or too much sugar. She keeps apologizing for taking so long, and even though I want to grab her and tell her she can take as long as she wants, all I can muster up is a weak “really, it’s okay.”

The next day I help prepare the Thanksgiving birthday meal. Lisa makes squash, and we all agree to add cinnamon but to leave the brown sugar on the side. We make a turkey with garlic. Our stuffing is made simply of bread, apples and shallots. A honey Dijon sauce is reserved for the vegetables, which we also leave on the side for those who can’t eat it. We use salt-free, low-fat margarine in place of butter.

And then we feast.

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