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More than just a game

Mexico and Iran — two countries that have recently become identified with their reluctance to settle issues agitating global tensions and compromising America’s security.  One has encountered an inability to curb illegal emigration; the other is moving down a path towards nuclear proliferation.  Neither currently holds an endearing position with the U.S. government, and both are the source of endless debate and political drama.  

Yet there they were on Sunday, facing off in the first round of the World Cup in Germany; 11 men per side playing for the honor of their countries and the thrill of winning a match in the world’s most revered sporting event.  Many people north of the border and west of the Atlantic haven’t found the source of excitement in a game that might go 90 minutes without any scoring, but anybody who saw the Mexican fans celebrating recognizes that there is clearly some kind of allure to the game of soccer.

I’ve been a fan of the World Cup since 1994, when the games were played in the United States and a local buzz was going around since America was the host country.  I needed a team to root for, and my ancestral country seemed much more enthused about its representatives than my home country did, so I adopted Italy as my team and Roberto Baggio as my favorite player.  After following the Azzurri for a month and rejoicing with each goal scored and lamenting each goal allowed, I found the Italians playing Brazil for the championship.  In a cruel twist of fate for a young fan infatuated with a new team, Italy lost in a shootout when Baggio, arguably the greatest player in the world at the time, clinched the match for Brazil by sending his and the game’s final kick over the crossbar.  Since that summer, I’ve looked forward to the World Cup every four years as a chance to see the world’s greatest athletes excel at the sport that has been embraced by the rest of humanity as the international past time.  There are no made-for-TV opening ceremonies; there’s no village and no curling.  There are no overly tacky, extravagant halftime shows.  There’s just soccer and its millions upon millions of crazed, invigorated, maniacal fans reveling in the chance to see their country compete with the world’s best.

So when Mexico and Iran faced off on Sunday and the two teams took the field, there was much more at stake than just the final score.  There were two teams playing for pride, both for themselves and for the countries they were representing — and the world tuned in. Iran was no longer the country at odds with the world over uranium enrichment, and Mexico was no longer the country whose millions of illegal immigrants are in the U.S. right now.  These nations suddenly became ordinary men out to win and make their fellow countrymen proud.  

Most people follow sports because of the competition and dexterity which they themselves are mostly incapable of but still love to observe.  Even the world’s best watch other athletes to admire the pure excitement, strength, and grace exhibited on the playing field.  Athletes’ contributions to society are often minimal, but they are idolized because they provide a chance for the average individual to believe in human triumph.  

In a similar manner, anybody who has ever devoutly followed a team knows that an odd relationship develops between team and supporter.  The fan probably doesn’t know any of the players and has no real effect on the outcome of the game. The team’s roster is continually changing so that every ten years, there is basically an entirely new group of players representing the name.  Nonetheless, for some inexplicable reason, a fan will live and die with a team each time the squad takes the field.

The opportunity to combine sport and country results in a unique type of pride which comes out in full force during the World Cup.  Soccer might just be a game, and its winners and losers don’t change anything, but every time two teams take the field, the rest of the world stops and the only issue that matters is finding a way to emerge victorious.  We saw this on Sunday where for just 90 minutes, there were no illegal immigrants and there was no talk of nuclear warfare.  There were 22 men on a field competing for victory; for themselves, for their fans, and for their countries — and that should at least count for something.

Mike Robustelli

 

Hurt to self

I recently caught a story online at MSNBC on the apparent rise of self-mutilation among college students. According to the article, a study led by a Cornell psychologist, 17 percent of nearly 3,000 Cornell and Princeton students had purposely injured themselves, with 70 percent doing so multiple times.

A general definition of self-mutilation (a.k.a. self-abuse or self-injury), is the act of purposely injuring oneself, either through cutting, burning, or other methods.

To most of us, the idea of self-mutilation is bewildering, bizarre, and disturbing. To those of us who’ve self-injured, it’s something else altogether.

Obviously, I can’t speak for anyone except for myself, and I am one of those individuals who, while in college, self-mutilated. At the time, there were many factors that contributed to my depression (that’s my own self-diagnosis) and, ultimately, to taking a knife and cutting myself. At the time, I’d never heard of self-mutilation, didn’t know about the “phenomenon,” didn’t know anyone who did such things. All I knew was that I needed a way to lay bare the pain on the inside to the outside.

The article notes that self-injuring is usually not considered a suicide attempt, and at the time of my experience, I wasn’t trying to kill myself by doing it. I think for me it was almost an alleviation of some kind; a way to express something that I could not verbally and a way to remove myself from increasing thoughts of suicide.

For some young people, the act becomes a rush, an addictive daily release. Although I never repeated it, I know that something changed for me when I did it. Oddly enough, I felt that things had somehow gotten lighter, that I could make my way through the “real world,” and that things would improve.

Perhaps it was the attention I received from my friends after they learned about my behavior and the care they took around me that gave me a sense of self-importance and esteem. Whatever it was, I can see how the act becomes repetitive, why it becomes seemingly vital.

Maybe self-abuse has increased, but it certainly is not new. The author of this study notes that even children as young as fourth grade have self-injured, with peers and classmates mimicking the behavior of one individual.

Whatever reasons lead people to self-injury, whatever temporary relief or help they feel from the act, the answer for me will always be same: there is a better way. Like other things once considered taboo, including depression and suicide, this practice needs to be discussed, and solutions need to be found — not to glorify or encourage the behavior, but to provide other, more positive outlets to let the inside out.

Internet resources:
www.selfinjury.com
www.nmha.org/infoctr/factsheets/selfinjury.cfm
www.focusas.com/Selfinjury.html
http://depression.about.com/od/selfinjury

Desiree Aquino

 

Martyred at last

After years of unsuccessful suicide attempts, Guantánamo Bay finally has its first bona fide martyrs: Three Arab men hanged themselves on Sa…

After years of unsuccessful suicide attempts, Guantánamo Bay finally has its first bona fide martyrs: Three Arab men hanged themselves on Saturday in their cells at the U.S.-run prison camp. (According to the military, 23 of the 460 prisoners at Guantánamo have attempted suicide a total of 41 times, though news reports have put the number much higher — at one point, says this article, 130 prisoners were on a hunger strike.)

I say “martyrs” because that’s what these men will become in the eyes of many in the Arab and Muslim worlds. The U.S. policy of holding prisoners in Guantánamo without trial or charges is like the gift that keeps on giving. It provides holy warriors with a righteous rallying cry and inspires legions of other recruits (almost certainly more than the 460 holed up at Guantánamo) to take up terrorism. Much of this could have been avoided if the Bush administration had actually followed international law in dealing with these suspected terrorists — a significant number of whom, according to the government’s own data, have never committed hostile acts against the U.S. or its coalition allies.
  
Meanwhile, Guantánamo’s base commander said — I assume with a straight face — that the triple suicide “was not an act of desperation, but an act of asymmetrical warfare waged against us.” Weldon Berger at BTC News sums up the logic of this sentiment rather nicely: “Pity we can’t execute the three for this heinous assault on all we hold dear, isn’t it? Maybe once rigor sets in we can stand them up against a wall and go through the motions.”

Victor Tan Chen

Victor Tan Chen is In The Fray's editor in chief and the author of Cut Loose: Jobless and Hopeless in an Unfair Economy. Site: victortanchen.com | Facebook | Twitter: @victortanchen

 

The song remains the same (sort of)

When the song “A Hard Rain’s A-Gonna Fall” was first released in 1963, an entire generation was exposed to the horrific experience that made up one man’s post-nuclear fallout vision.  That song came from a different time, one where popular music was being sung and written under the belief that it could help society move forward and be responsible for some type of positive social change.  This was an era entrenched in Cold War politics, the Civil Rights movement, and a notion of pacifism where each participant held a personal stake.  Neil Young sang the verse, “Tin soldiers and Nixon’s coming / We’re finally on our own / This summer I hear the drumming / Four dead in Ohio,” a moving response and tribute to the dead students at Kent State University.  American society’s come a long way since then, and whether or not popular music as an art has progressed or regressed is open to speculation, but one thing is certain: the lyrical poems put to music that were once intelligent, symbolic messages for a generation have almost entirely disappeared, at least as far as anything that makes it to radio.  Every once in a while a singer will write something with far-reaching overtones and say it with backbone, like when we hear Radiohead’s Thom Yorke assume the role of dictator and firmly declare “When I am king, you will be first against the wall / With your opinion which is of no consequence at all.” What’s so disturbing about this image – aside from the song’s tone and Yorke’s voice – is that the fear evoked is universal.  While it might bring to mind regimes that could enact this scenario, the song is left open, reminding us of its possibility rather than singling out an individual as the sole cause of all our problems.  It is attacking an ideology, just like the two examples above, rather than a name.  There are few things more irritating from a political perspective than listening to somebody deliver an ill-informed and harmless message about some political leader.  

Why then are we in such a state that if a music group criticizes the government, rightfully or wrongfully, they are suddenly on the cover of national news magazines and the subject of endless discussion? The answer is simple: the media, along with the heads of most powerful organizations, many of whom grew up during the 1960s and are the only vestiges of that era’s “rebellion,” are the ones who have the ability to dictate topics of discussion while simultaneously ensuring  that they remain without any real public depth.  Matt Taibbi, formerly of the New York Press, summed this up nicely, stating “In a glib, permissive age where dissent, protest, certain forms of civil disobedience, and even the occasional arrest are superficially acceptable and even encouraged, the only real taboo when it comes to having political convictions today is meaning it.”  

There was once a time when you didn’t need a weatherman to know which way the wind blew.  Jack Kerouac, a man who professed a somewhat apolitical ethos, wrote a book which influenced and shaped a whole generation.  The Dixie Chicks are all over the news today, but they’re not exactly the collective voice of a generation – one could almost make the argument that they have received so much publicity because of the non-threatening nature of their songs and the group members themselves.  There is also the fact, however, that they attempted to introduce some greater purpose into their music, and there is a real need for this.  

There have been a number of unintelligible protest songs in recent years which are usually praised by liberal outlets and criticized by conservative ones, not so much for content but for intent.  It’s almost obligatory for the major rock acts and rap artists to release the “We’re against the war” song or interview.  The problem is that while these actions might be implemented with the best intentions, it appears that the reason they’re embraced or even performed is the same reason people say they want to be Buddhists or wear bead necklaces and frayed jeans: the ideals of the 1960s have been reduced to a fashion statement, both by the people who originally lived them and by the later generations following the lead of their elders.  It is now safe to stand up against popular opinion because we can always say “we were young and stupid” once we’re old enough to really understand.  The people who grasp this concept are the ones who get picked up by the media because they bring the most flash, whether or not there is substance behind the appearance.  Anybody who simply has a message will likely be mocked; this is the mentality of our culture.  You can engage in a political conversation at a cocktail party endorsing contrarian views, as long as people understand that you’re just the crazy one of the group who has to be different.  Underneath the quirky shirt and loud voice, you’re just like everybody else.  

We can hope that there’s another Bob Dylan out there among us, but the truth is that if Bob Dylan were a 23-year-old trying to find a record deal today, he would be trying for a long time.  There seems to be a collective hope that somebody will come out with a voice and sound as powerful as those of years past who can still reach this era’s generation.  You can read reviews and tell that people want to believe they are listening to the album that will inspire and put an end to modern apathy, but so far this expectation has gone unfulfilled.  Re-living the 1960s would get us nowhere as I’m sure nobody wants to see a bunch of un-showered, upper-middle-class white kids running around, dropping tabs of acid in some imaginary Elysian field.  A vision of thoughtful, educated individuals is not so ridiculous, however – the possibility of this realization is certainly worth fighting for and shouldn’t be too much to ask for.

Mike Robustelli

 

Ghosts of conflict

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In this issue of ITF, we explore the tricky proposition of peace. It’s a state more often missed than celebrated, more often yearned for in its absence than lauded in its presence. In many parts of the world, it remains fragile, held together by borders, troops, and guns, the very forces that often threaten it. Often imagining peace and making it the subject of our words and music is a laborious task.

What separates us from others anyway? Guest columnist Brigid Moriarty kicks off this issue by positing the provocative idea of doing away with borders in Waging peace by deconstructing what keeps us bound.

Next, in Through the Looking Glass, ITF Contributing Writer Penny Newbury remembers her time in East Timor, digging latrines and chasing ghosts, after the massacres that followed the 1999 vote for independence.

Then, in Off the Shelf John Bringardner reviews Elias Khoury’s Gate of the Sun, a novel narrated by a Palestinian doctor trying to keep his dying friend conscious by telling stories in this modern  version of Shahrazad’s project in 1,001 Arabian Nights. The result is a window onto the life of Palestinian refugees, displaced by the world’s inability to make peace in the Middle East a reality.

Finally, Vanessa H. Larson writes about a member of a Palestinian Israeli band and the consequences of his attempts to make music with the other side.

Waging peace. If anything, it involves embracing ghosts, burying the dead, somehow accommodating the past while learning to sing new songs.

Nicole Leistikow
Managing Editor
Baltimore, Maryland

 

Remembering Valerie

Valerie Burgher — a contributor to this magazine, a journalism colleague, and a dear friend — passed away last week. She and I had worked together at the sa…

Valerie Burgher — a contributor to this magazine, a journalism colleague, and a dear friend — passed away last week. She and I had worked together at the same newspaper several years ago, and last fall she became involved with InTheFray. I believe the last article she wrote was published in these pages.

Valerie was an exceptional writer, whose personality shone as brightly in her prose as it did in person: at turns bold or light-hearted, spirited or wry, thoughtful or mischievous. She was a determined reporter who had a passion for social justice and a heartfelt concern for the ordinary people whose lives she put to pen. She also had a brilliant wit, lethal when skewering celebrities at the Oscars or politicians at a legislative session.

She was intelligent and gifted beyond belief, always surprising friends with new talents. Like that time when she got up in front of the newsroom and strummed a guitar. Or her recent decision to embark on a promising new career in filmmaking.

She also suffered, like many people, from bipolar disorder. Yet Valerie managed in spite of this to do great things, and leave so many of us the wiser and happier for having known her.

I remember her laugh — a laugh so full of life you’d have to call it a guffaw. I remember the gleam she’d get in her eye when telling a joke. I remember how, in 34 years of work and play, she succeeded in making a life of her art, and an art of her life.

I’ll remember Valerie for all the ways she blessed us, before she left us too soon.

Victor Tan Chen

p.s. Valerie’s memorial service will be held at 1 p.m. on Tuesday, June 6, at Christ Evangelical Lutheran Church, 4714 Glenwood Street, Little Neck, N.Y. 11363. The Burgher family writes:

“Friends who would like to share thoughts about Valerie are warmly invited to do so at the service. I am hoping this will be more of a celebration of Valerie. Burial will be following the service at Pinelawn Cemetery [on Long Island].

“Valerie’s mom, Sonia Burgher, has asked that instead of flowers, contributions be made in Valerie’s name to NAMI, the National Alliance on Mental Illness (nami.org).”

Victor Tan Chen is In The Fray's editor in chief and the author of Cut Loose: Jobless and Hopeless in an Unfair Economy. Site: victortanchen.com | Facebook | Twitter: @victortanchen

 

The buzz about the bee

For the first time in its 79-year history, the final rounds of the Scripps National Spelling Bee were televised live during primetime on ABC television.  What does this say either about our culture or about the state of network television?  Let me spell it out.

It took two hours and ten minutes of primetime to deliver a champion, Katherine “Kerry” Close of Spring Lake, New Jersey, and I must admit that even though the broadcast followed a typical live sports script, it was compelling television that included kids with unique and quirky personalities and a building tension as one by one each contestant is eliminated.  It is obvious that the success of American Idol, which follows a similar format, made the powers-at-be at ABC/Disney look at the Bee as a possible primetime special.  The event’s second day has been televised on sister cable station ESPN since 1994, so it was an easy change to move the finals to the bigger stage.  As reality TV becomes part of our culture’s zeitgeist and these types of programs remain cheap to produce, the big broadcast networks will gravitate to them as their share of audience declines — the bottom line comes first.

But even if the bee was given a green light because of business reasons it is still deserving of its prime network spot, and after 79 years has become a competitive institution embedded in American culture, not unlike the Westminster Dog Show or the Kentucky Derby.  Thursday evening’s competition delivered all the essential elements needed in a top television show, including a sports-like image when the finalists spontaneously gathered in a huddle and chanted “One-two-three-spell!”  (It should be noted that the previous moment happened during a commercial break and had to be recreated by the kids for the live feed.)  

It’s my contention that if the bee ran for a whole season, audience members would most likely become attached to both the format and the contestants, just like they have with other reality-based shows.  I wouldn’t be surprised if next year you see a show called American Speller or even Celebrity Speller, where each week a different has-been celebrity is eliminated after trying to spell a series of odd words, most likely with a sexual connotation.  The only problem is trying to find how to incorporate the viewing audience — the key to Idol’s giant success.

The live show on ABC was hosted by Good Morning America’s Robin Roberts, with accompanying analysis by former bee finalist (1990) Paul A. Loeffler and sideline interviews from ABC News correspondent Chris Connelly. What I liked about ABC’s coverage was that it wasn’t too exploitative and kept mainly to the live drama, only peppering with Wide World of Sports-type, up-close-and-personal segments that took viewers to some of the finalists’ hometowns to find out just how they became spellaholics.  These well-edited mini-bios were just the right length to show not only how dedicated and studious these kids really are, but also the nuances of their personalities that drive them to compete.  One 13-year-old home-schooled boy from Scottsdale, Arizona, Jonathan Horton, even purported that if he spent the same amount of time at practicing basketball as he did studying words, he could be as good as Steve Nash or Michael Jordan.  With attitudes like that, these kids will no doubt succeed in whatever avenue they choose (except in Mr. Horton’s case, I hope he stays off the court).

Champion Kerry Close may not become a household name like American Idol Taylor Hicks, but at least her win doesn’t lock her into a multi-year spelling contract.  She’ll return to her schooling, though she says she may come back next year and try for back-to-back wins, never before accomplished at the bee.

Now that spelling bees have become popular (as subjects of movies, Broadway musicals, and documentaries), I hope that ABC continues to run the finals of the bee in primetime and keeps it as an annual event without exploiting the concept and turning it into something more than it is — a simple spelling contest.  It is nice to see something on television where kids can see other kids working hard and achieving greatness.  So much of television is filled with shallowness, violence, and a perception of kids as either little adults — participating in activities beyond their age — or as shiny, assembly-line boys and girls who seem to be manufactured in some warehouse in the San Fernando Valley (see Disney Channel).  If you missed Thursday night’s broadcast but want a glimpse into the world of spelling bees, you can always go see the new film Akeelah and the Bee, still in some theaters, or rent the compelling Oscar-nominated documentary Spellbound or Bee Season, starring Richard Gere and out on DVD. Also, there’s the touring company of the two-time Tony award-winning Broadway musical The 25th Annual Putnam County Spelling Bee.  All I know is I couldn’t spell most of the words given to the contestants during the finals, so I hope they are given the respect and awe we give to star athletes who, as a culture, we worship everyday.  If the ratings prove right, The Scripps National Spelling Bee will truly be a revenge of the nerds.

Rich Burlingham

 

Why do they hate us?

I am not surprised by what happened in Haditha because Americans are terrorists and killers. And this is the way of life now. I don’t care if they punish the American soldiers because they cannot bring ba…

I am not surprised by what happened in Haditha because Americans are terrorists and killers. And this is the way of life now. I don’t care if they punish the American soldiers because they cannot bring back the lives of the dead.

—Baghdad sandwich vendor Murthada Abdel Rashid, 29, when asked for reaction to the alleged murder of Iraqi civilians by U.S. Marines in the northwestern town of Haditha last fall. According to news reports, U.S. military investigators have found that as many as 24 civilians, including women and children, were shot in retaliation for the death of a Marine lance corporal, and not killed in a roadside bomb blast or crossfire as the military previously said.

Victor Tan Chen

Victor Tan Chen is In The Fray's editor in chief and the author of Cut Loose: Jobless and Hopeless in an Unfair Economy. Site: victortanchen.com | Facebook | Twitter: @victortanchen

 

Blogging from the big house

Here’s your occasional dose of inspiring news: Alaa Abdel-Fattah, an Egyptian pro-democracy activist who was arrested in early…

Here’s your occasional dose of inspiring news: Alaa Abdel-Fattah, an Egyptian pro-democracy activist who was arrested in early May, is continuing to blog from prison — somehow getting slips of paper with his scribbled posts past his jailers and into the safe havens of cyberspace. He and his wife Manal Hassan run a popular blog that has become a beacon within Egypt’s political reform movement, and a thorn in the side of President Hosni Mubarak’s authoritarian regime. You can read the blog here (it includes articles in English).

Victor Tan Chen

Victor Tan Chen is In The Fray's editor in chief and the author of Cut Loose: Jobless and Hopeless in an Unfair Economy. Site: victortanchen.com | Facebook | Twitter: @victortanchen

 

Gay in Moscow

In our country, homosexuality and lesbianism have always been considered sexual perversions, and were even prosecuted in the past. Currently, the stated actions are not prohibited by law… but their agitation, including gay festivals and a parade of sexual minorities, is in fact propaganda of immorality, which may be prohibited by law.

—Moscow Deputy Mayor Lyudmila Shevtsova, banning Moscow’s first gay rights march, which was planned for May 27, the 13th anniversary of the decriminalization of homosexuality in Russia. Officials banned the rally on the grounds that it would incite violence.  The rally, nevertheless, went ahead, during which scores of protesters — including gay rights activists as well as nationalists and members of religious groups who condemned the march  — were arrested.

Mimi Hanaoka