Call me crazy, but I really don’t understand the media’s obsession with the spouses of presidential candidates. (Maybe I should just say the ”wives“ of presidential candidates. After all, the husbands of presidential candidates don’t make it into the spotlight since female candidates rarely remain on the ballot past February).

Prior to Dean’s withdrawal from the Democratic race, we heard all about how his wife was a liability since she wasn’t on the campaign trail with him. Today, The New York Times features an article which questions whether John Kerry’s wife, Teresa Heinz Kerry, is an asset or a liability to his run for the White House.

Sure, I suppose every intimate detail of a candidate’s life, ranging from Botox to extramarital affairs to the quality of his wife’s chocolate chip cookie recipe, is subject to scrutiny in determining whether he is fit to run the country. At the risk of being incredibly blunt and dismissive, who really cares? Or rather, why does the media try to make voters base their decisions on relatively trivial, personal issues?

I suppose that these types of stories keep The National Enquirer in business and give people something to talk about. But beyond that, such superficial details have little to no impact on one’s ability to lead a country.

On a related note, I wonder if the media’s portrayal of the wives of presidential candidates as caretakers, homemakers, party planners, entertainers — everything but policymakers —  reinforces the idea that women are expected to be wives first and foremost. I guess that by definition, that is what the title ”First Lady“ means.

But I wonder whether this tendency to focus on a presidential candidate’s spouse and children (remember those painful Saturday Night Live skits about Chelsea Clinton during the early 1990s?) reinforces the notion of the ”trophy wife,“ thereby making it that much more difficult for us to imagine a woman in the White House — as president. Maybe it’s time to start questioning the media’s tendency to question whether presidential candidates and their wives are indeed ”model Americans“ and worry a little more about what they will do for the country — and whether they can create a sense of belonging both in the White House and throughout the nation for a larger spectrum of people. Just some food for thought …  kind of like the chocolate chip cookie contest that dominated the 1992 presidential election.

Laura Nathan-Garner