While it seems silly that the media loves to focus on whether prospective First Ladies are liabilities or assets to their husbands campaigns, what should we make of all of the hoopla over Mary Cheney’s participation in her father’s re-election campaign? Openly gay, Mary Cheney has stood by her Vice President father and actively participated in the promotion of the Bush/Cheney ticket. Given that the Bush administration has vocalized its support of a constitutional amendment to ban same-sex marriages, members of the queer community can hardly begin to fathom how Cheney’s daughter is able to reconcile her sexual orientation with her ardent promotion of the Radical Right’s agenda.

In fact, just recently, some concerned citizens launched www.DearMary.com, a site dedicated to urging Mary Cheney to convince her father to oppose the amendment and to focus her loyalties on the interests of the queer community.

Mary’s predicament is not one that most of us would want to find ourselves in for one reason or another, but it does raise some important questions: Does one’s first loyalty belong to his or her family or to the demands of identity politics? Is it even possible to make such a simple delineation, particularly when one’s family and upbringing constitutes part of one’s identity? And is it possible that neither Cheney’s family nor the queer community which wants to claim her as its spokesperson can actually lay claim to Mary’s identity since both oppose aspects of her identity and thus potentially preclude genuine self-actualization?

Laura Nathan-Garner